10 THE BEST OF MONTEREY BAY® FAMILY 2025-2026 Being a mom and having a social life for herself and her kids can be challenging, especially if she is a new mom or recently moved to a new community. There are various schedules to follow that can create a sense of isolation. Some friendships may grow apart resulting in a decline of their social life. Parents have less flexibility—especially moms if they are still nursing or have young children. Being surrounded by people who are in the same stage of life is important; they are people you can relate to and feel supported by. Some of this COURTESY OF ASHLEY SARGENT FIND A VILLAGE For busy parents, making the time to socialize with others can be tricky. Groups help fill the gap. By Celia Jiménez happens virtually, in various groups on social media such as Monterey Area Mommies and Monterey Bay Moms where moms support each other, ask for advice or plan play dates. On apps like Hello Mamas or Peanut, they can follow, meet and interact with nearby moms. Digital tools are also a platform to coordinate in-person gatherings. Maria Depaz, a mother of two, Kleo, 5, and Jimmy, 2, says there is a lot of truth in the phrase, “It takes a village to raise a child.” “The mother needs a village to feel supported, to be able to function well for her child,” Depaz says, noting she Left: Ashley Sargent, with her two boys Sam and Dean, is part of a group of mothers and their children who gather frequently in the outdoors. Top: MY Museum is a popular spot for families with young children. Above: National Charity League volunteer Crystal Gaudette paints a child’s face at a MY Museum event. DANIEL DREIFUSS DANIEL DREIFUSS
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